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But IT is a great place for many to get the opportunity to express themselves.
Writing codes and such just places for the glyphs to contact us.
A medium .
Book is alive......I sleep close to IT.
Mahu Nahi communicates via the words
Like a Golden Compass,,,,,,and so much real work is done ....when your physical body sleeps.
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Ok with me if you use it though....as the words are the same....no Soul
That is what bothers me about it.....Read the book and see the difference Shay.



Since when did your incoherent ignorance(which is redundant) become the standard point of view? :roll: Like what you just posted comes from the soul? Isn't your EGO more like it????!!!! What a dumb-a-ss!!! :roll: Ya and I forgive myself too and have compassion for me for having tolerated your dumba-ss for far too long. And I say with valor, "NO MORE DO I SUPPORT DUMBAS-SES!!!!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:


Co-founders of Sumbola are Mark Hempel and Solaris the webmaster of this forum, neither of which I would rate as "souless" the material coming from them nor from a good number of people who post there or have books there.. mactzorb and markzorb are the same dumbas-ss. :roll:

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Here's a rather interesting article from a co-founder of Sumbola, Ernest Vershiyi, the webmaster of this forum.

Does Reading Make You a Better Person?

“Books are much more. They are a way of being fully human.” — Susan Sontag

Anyone who has ever cozied up in a corner with a fascinating novel knows the pleasures of an afternoon spent reading. Perhaps it was whizzing through breezy books like the Harry Potter series or spending time (and a great deal of energy) grappling with the more serious concepts put forth by the likes of Dostoevsky or Safran Foer. Either way, finding that truly engaging novel is a beautiful moment, and is always something to be cherished. As C.S. Lewis said, “You can never get a cup of tea large enough or a book long enough to suit me.”

But what if reading is more than just a simple pleasure, more than something that entertains and engrosses?

In a recent study from Emory University, researchers found that people who read stimulating novels had lasting neurological changes. The study only checked the participants’ brains up to five days after the test, but it appeared that their brains had been permanently rewired. Fascinatingly, these changes were found mostly in the left temporal cortex, which is the area in charge of language receptivity. Neurons in this part of the brain have been known to create “grounded cognition,” which is when your brain tricks your body into doing something just based on thinking. For instance, if you’re thinking about eating, your mouth may begin to produce saliva with the expectation that it will soon be processing food. When reading, your brain can be tricked into thinking you, the reader, are genuinely part of the story, deeply connected with the protagonist and his/her plight.

As Gregory Berns, the head researcher of the study, wrote, “The neural changes that we found associated with physical sensation and movement systems suggest that reading a novel can transport you into the body of the protagonist.” He added, “We already knew that good stories can put you in someone else’s shoes in a figurative sense. Now we’re seeing that something may also be happening biologically.”

What’s happening is that readers are being made into more aware, more morally conscious people. In our day-to-day existence, we often only see one side of a person, oblivious to what’s really going on in their life or what could be driving their words and actions. Perhaps the seemingly weird, awkward classmate is, unbeknownst to his peers, helplessly watching his parents go through a divorce at home. Or maybe the attention-seeking narcissist at work has actually recently lost his brother, the only person who would validate him and quell his insecurities. When we read a novel, we get the whole picture; we see a character’s complete life. All the empathetic emotions we feel for characters in novels actually wires our brains to have the same sort of sensitivity towards people in the real world.

The ability to realize that other people may have differing beliefs, desires, intents and knowledge than oneself — what scientists and philosophers call “theory of mind” — is likewise enhanced by reading high-level fiction, according to a recent study in Science. Massive deficits of “theory of mind” can be found in people with autism, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and schizophrenia, but, to a certain extent, everyone is somewhat deficient in this kind of empathy and understanding. We all tend to think mainly about ourselves and often forget that our priorities, our likes and dislikes, are not necessarily the priorities of everyone else. It is through reading books that this can be best countenanced and changed.

Ironically, one might learn about the world, about how to be a more empathetic and understanding person towards others from reading; but, if one were to spend all his/her time reading, one would never even have a chance to commiserate, to socialize in a truly positive way. I had the pleasure of speaking with the author Jess Walter, and, in talking about literary ambitions, he noted how so many people misunderstand the amount of loneliness that’s required to be a writer. The example he gave was of Ernest Hemingway. In the 1920s and ‘30s, many Americans who had read about Hemingway’s experiences in the fantastic restaurants and bars of Paris set out to find him in the very locales he describes. But, when they got there, they were invariably disappointed for he was rarely actually in the places he was writing about. He was alone, usually in his apartment, working away. Same goes with reading. If one were to understand a vast variety of characters by diving in to the literary greats and the modern classics — able to glean new information and attain unique perspectives — one would never actually have the time to use these newly learned viewpoints and understandings in the real world.

And thus, reading should never be looked at exclusively as a way to improve ourselves. Neuroscience and sociology show that books really do make us better people, yet it is important to never lose sight of the real meaning of reading. As Gustave Flaubert said, “Do not read, as children do, to amuse yourself, or like the ambitious, for the purpose of instruction. No, read in order to live.”


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well, if you can't read, then the internet is a very silly place to be ... I don't read books any more, they can't keep up with "the NOW" and are really not as interesting as reality (can't make this stuff up)

but what truly amazes me, is that I can express genuine gratitude, EVERY single day, for how I see the Universal Entity "brightening my path" - it keeps me in a state of Humility to realize its concern for my well being and steady progress - and my relationship with Nature is consistently awe inspiring

I'm not waiting for "a collective" - WE ARE INTEGRAL to "the collective" - if I am not participating in the dismantling of the walls - there is no collective forming ... and never will be, until I AM participating - practicing, honing my skills, mastering my potential - not waiting on some "savior" because nothing prevents us from fulfilling my/our destiny in the plan of First Source - NOW:

"The plan is the collective unfolding of souls to realize the singular nature of universehood as an undivided process.

We move from neighborhoods to cities, to states, to nations, to continents, to hemispheres, to planets, to solar systems, to galaxies, to local universes, to Superuniverses, to the Grand Multiverse—the all-encompassing structure of our collective unity.

And at every step we emerge the victor of the lesser state of being in that our lives increasingly exemplify the presence of our collective perception of what is best for the evolutionary course set forth by First Source for the Grand Multiverse."


LD 3 Nature of Knowledge, https://www.wingmakers.com/content/resources/

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Paul: One way of thinking about wisdom is that in between wisdom and folly or stupidity, is conventionality. The conventional worldview is basically the worldview of the Moderns, getting and spending, the media, the guardians of how things are without any change.

If you think of culture as a bell curve, most people are in the middle, but there is a leading edge and it is a wise leading edge. And there is a foolish trailing edge in the culture. Leading from the edge means using many ways of knowing. Cultural Creatives use many ways of knowing that are objective and fact-based but also ways of knowing that are body or heart knowing, and not just from the individual view, but having an intuitive of what is going on for the world.

Having all of these kinds of input, means you have a better reality. Not just the specialist way or the fundamentalist way. Because Cultural Creatives are good at synthesizing, they are good at cutting through to the heart of a matter. They are also frequently perceptive, subtle observers.

Practical wisdom is all of this. Having the ability to see the greatest good and then having a heart that wills the common good. The test is:

~Are you committed to a love of the truth?
~What is transparent and authentic and trustworthy?
~Do you have discriminating judgment about what is good and humane?
~Do you have a big repertoire of values or only one or two things that you spend your time on?
~Do you ever use higher levels of consciousness in developing insight?
~Do you practice letting things alone and unfold in their own way?



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[Censored] or not I stand behind my words .
James is Terran Khan.....and we all effected by his resonance.
Unity is at hand....lets just all take a walk in the Sun
BST not the answer .
I am allowed my opinions
And am open to your Heart.
Coded to Nirih Ashtar......whom I still serve
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New Philadelphia......a Crystal City.....kind of ship
Soon to dock......in the Pacific Ocean.
Intra dimensional commerce about to commence.
Economies of both will flourish.
A win win everybody happy........We advance now leaps in bounds Carbon into Crystal


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The Pale Blue Dot - THE SAGAN SERIES

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when we, in our practice of what we learn at the Event Temple, contribute our energetic "golden ball" to Spirit, to assist in the energizing of the Grid of Compassion, it is done individually, but the results are "collective".

we physically create the "golden ball" of energy, in our mind, but we give it to Spirit, who exists beyond the realms of the Human Mind Systems and Spirit applies it Masterfully, to the Grid of Compassion that encompass our (collective) World ... the gold is our personal energy, that fuels a genuine intent to be compassionate ... to share this new intelligence .

compassion is an active desire to assist others to align with the new fields of intelligence that are manifesting in the three dimensional world, aware that their desire and ability to align is distorted by their social enculturation; it does not accurately reflect their intelligence, spiritual inclinations, or purpose.

Compassion therefore is extended to both our fellow beings and the planet itself with the realization that we are part of one another’s destiny if only for a single lifetime. Planet and person dance in the ascending currents of First Source in a collaborative process of regeneration and renewal. We are all part of the mysterious overtures and energetic transcendence that is occurring between Earth and the universe, and as earth transforms its accumulated densities each of us will be challenged to transform our own, or become further embedded in our fears and emotional turmoil.

Compassion therefore is extended to both our fellow beings and the planet itself with the realization that we are part of one another’s destiny if only for a single lifetime. Planet and person dance in the ascending currents of First Source in a collaborative process of regeneration and renewal. We are all part of the mysterious overtures and energetic transcendence that is occurring between Earth and the universe, and as earth transforms its accumulated densities each of us will be challenged to transform our own, or become further embedded in our fears and emotional turmoil.

https://www.wingmakers.com/6-heart-virtues/ Appendix


compassion is a frequency, the grid is designed to resonate that frequency from outside of the mind ... and we, as particles of the Infinite Universe, will dance into a new position, and collectively take on a new form - if one cuts the ties that anchors them in a "lower" frequency field- while in the body... and frees them to dance into a new form that is taking shape now.

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well, if you can't read, then the internet is a very silly place to be ... I don't read books any more, they can't keep up with "the NOW" and are really not as interesting as reality (can't make this stuff up)

but what truly amazes me, is that I can express genuine gratitude, EVERY single day, for how I see the Universal Entity "brightening my path" - it keeps me in a state of Humility to realize its concern for my well being and steady progress - and my relationship with Nature is consistently awe inspiring

I'm not waiting for "a collective" - WE ARE INTEGRAL to "the collective" - if I am not participating in the dismantling of the walls - there is no collective forming ... and never will be, until I AM participating - practicing, honing my skills, mastering my potential - not waiting on some "savior" because nothing prevents us from fulfilling my/our destiny in the plan of First Source - NOW:

"The plan is the collective unfolding of souls to realize the singular nature of universehood as an undivided process.


We move from neighborhoods to cities, to states, to nations, to continents, to hemispheres, to planets, to solar systems, to galaxies, to local universes, to Superuniverses, to the Grand Multiverse—the all-encompassing structure of our collective unity.

And at every step we emerge the victor of the lesser state of being in that our lives increasingly exemplify the presence of our collective perception of what is best for the evolutionary course set forth by First Source for the Grand Multiverse."


LD 3 Nature of Knowledge, https://www.wingmakers.com/content/resources/



This is so convoluted that all I can say is , it is obvious that you don't read and it shows for lack of research when you try replacing the need to read and research with your uninformed opinion instead used with taking the WMM out of context...as usual. That just doesn't fly here anymore and especially with those who still do read. I taught myself to read when 4 years old so excited was I to explore the world of books. I have lost count of how much I have read since then decades ago, and I continue to be much richer for it. I love that Sumbola offers this wonderful platform for readers, authors and publishers and whatever else alike. I love that Planet Work Press exists to publish James' BOOKS. Us, committed readers love all of this!!! Exercising the imagination is a wonderful thing for those who have, sharing with those who can appreciate it.

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How Successful People Handle Toxic People

Toxic people defy logic. Some are blissfully unaware of the negative impact that they have on those around them, and others seem to derive satisfaction from creating chaos and pushing other people’s buttons. Either way, they create unnecessary complexity, strife, and worst of all stress.

Studies have long shown that stress can have a lasting, negative impact on the brain. Exposure to even a few days of stress compromises the effectiveness of neurons in the hippocampus—an important brain area responsible for reasoning and memory. Weeks of stress cause reversible damage to neuronal dendrites (the small “arms” that brain cells use to communicate with each other), and months of stress can permanently destroy neurons. Stress is a formidable threat to your success—when stress gets out of control, your brain and your performance suffer.

Most sources of stress at work are easy to identify. If your non-profit is working to land a grant that your organization needs to function, you’re bound to feel stress and likely know how to manage it. It's the unexpected sources of stress that take you by surprise and harm you the most.

Recent research from the Department of Biological and Clinical Psychology at Friedrich Schiller University in Germany found that exposure to stimuli that cause strong negative emotions—the same kind of exposure you get when dealing with toxic people—caused subjects’ brains to have a massive stress response. Whether it's negativity, cruelty, the victim syndrome, or just plain craziness, toxic people drive your brain into a stressed-out state that should be avoided at all costs.

The ability to manage your emotions and remain calm under pressure has a direct link to your performance. TalentSmart has conducted research with more than a million people, and we’ve found that 90% of top performers are skilled at managing their emotions in times of stress in order to remain calm and in control. One of their greatest gifts is the ability to neutralize toxic people. Top performers have well-honed coping strategies that they employ to keep toxic people at bay.

While I’ve run across numerous effective strategies that successful people employ when dealing with toxic people, what follows are twelve of the best. To deal with toxic people effectively, you need an approach that enables you, across the board, to control what you can and eliminate what you can’t. The important thing to remember is that you are in control of far more than you realize.

They Set Limits (Especially with Complainers)

Complainers and negative people are bad news because they wallow in their problems and fail to focus on solutions. They want people to join their pity party so that they can feel better about themselves. People often feel pressure to listen to complainers because they don’t want to be seen as callous or rude, but there’s a fine line between lending a sympathetic ear and getting sucked into their negative emotional spiral.

You can avoid this only by setting limits and distancing yourself when necessary. Think of it this way: if the complainer were smoking, would you sit there all afternoon inhaling the second-hand smoke? You’d distance yourself, and you should do the same with complainers. A great way to set limits is to ask complainers how they intend to fix the problem. They will either quiet down or redirect the conversation in a productive direction.

They Don’t Die in the Fight

Successful people know how important it is to live to fight another day, especially when your foe is a toxic individual. In conflict, unchecked emotion makes you dig your heels in and fight the kind of battle that can leave you severely damaged. When you read and respond to your emotions, you’re able to choose your battles wisely and only stand your ground when the time is right.

They Rise Above

Toxic people drive you crazy because their behavior is so irrational. Make no mistake about it; their behavior truly goes against reason. Which begs the question, why do you allow yourself to respond to them emotionally and get sucked into the mix?

The more irrational and off-base someone is, the easier it should be for you to remove yourself from their traps. Quit trying to beat them at their own game. Distance yourself from them emotionally and approach your interactions like they’re a science project (or you’re their shrink, if you prefer the analogy). You don’t need to respond to the emotional chaos—only the facts.

They Stay Aware of Their Emotions

Maintaining an emotional distance requires awareness. You can’t stop someone from pushing your buttons if you don’t recognize when it’s happening. Sometimes you’ll find yourself in situations where you’ll need to regroup and choose the best way forward. This is fine and you shouldn’t be afraid to buy yourself some time to do so.

Think of it this way—if a mentally unstable person approaches you on the street and tells you he’s John F. Kennedy, you’re unlikely to set him straight. When you find yourself with a coworker who is engaged in similarly derailed thinking, sometimes it’s best to just smile and nod. If you’re going to have to straighten them out, it’s better to give yourself some time to plan the best way to go about it.

They Establish Boundaries

This is the area where most people tend to sell themselves short. They feel like because they work or live with someone, they have no way to control the chaos. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Once you’ve found your way to Rise Above a person, you’ll begin to find their behavior more predictable and easier to understand. This will equip you to think rationally about when and where you have to put up with them and when you don’t. For example, even if you work with someone closely on a project team, that doesn’t mean that you need to have the same level of one-on-one interaction with them that you have with other team members.

You can establish a boundary, but you’ll have to do so consciously and proactively. If you let things happen naturally, you are bound to find yourself constantly embroiled in difficult conversations. If you set boundaries and decide when and where you’ll engage a difficult person, you can control much of the chaos. The only trick is to stick to your guns and keep boundaries in place when the person tries to encroach upon them, which they will.

They Won’t Let Anyone Limit Their Joy

When your sense of pleasure and satisfaction are derived from the opinions of other people, you are no longer the master of your own happiness. When emotionally intelligent people feel good about something that they’ve done, they won’t let anyone’s opinions or snide remarks take that away from them.

While it’s impossible to turn off your reactions to what others think of you, you don’t have to compare yourself to others, and you can always take people’s opinions with a grain of salt. That way, no matter what toxic people are thinking or doing, your self-worth comes from within. Regardless of what people think of you at any particular moment, one thing is certain—you’re never as good or bad as they say you are.

They Don't Focus on Problems—Only Solutions

Where you focus your attention determines your emotional state. When you fixate on the problems you’re facing, you create and prolong negative emotions and stress. When you focus on actions to better yourself and your circumstances, you create a sense of personal efficacy that produces positive emotions and reduces stress.

When it comes to toxic people, fixating on how crazy and difficult they are gives them power over you. Quit thinking about how troubling your difficult person is, and focus instead on how you're going to go about handling them. This makes you more effective by putting you in control, and it will reduce the amount of stress you experience when interacting with them.

They Don’t Forget

Emotionally intelligent people are quick to forgive, but that doesn’t mean that they forget. Forgiveness requires letting go of what’s happened so that you can move on. It doesn’t mean you’ll give a wrongdoer another chance. Successful people are unwilling to be bogged down unnecessarily by others’ mistakes, so they let them go quickly and are assertive in protecting themselves from future harm.

They Squash Negative Self-Talk

Sometimes you absorb the negativity of other people. There’s nothing wrong with feeling bad about how someone is treating you, but your self-talk (the thoughts you have about your feelings) can either intensify the negativity or help you move past it. Negative self-talk is unrealistic, unnecessary, and self-defeating. It sends you into a downward emotional spiral that is difficult to pull out of. You should avoid negative self-talk at all costs.

They Limit Their Caffeine Intake

Drinking caffeine triggers the release of adrenaline. Adrenaline is the source of the “fight-or-flight” response, a survival mechanism that forces you to stand up and fight or run for the hills when faced with a threat. The fight-or-flight mechanism sidesteps rational thinking in favor of a faster response. This is great when a bear is chasing you, but not so great when you’re surprised in the hallway by an angry coworker.

They Get Some Sleep

I’ve beaten this one to death over the years and can’t say enough about the importance of sleep to increasing your emotional intelligence and managing your stress levels. When you sleep, your brain literally recharges, shuffling through the day’s memories and storing or discarding them (which causes dreams), so that you wake up alert and clear-headed. Your self-control, attention, and memory are all reduced when you don’t get enough—or the right kind—of sleep. Sleep deprivation raises stress hormone levels on its own, even without a stressor present.

A good night’s sleep makes you more positive, creative, and proactive in your approach to toxic people, giving you the perspective you need to deal effectively with them.

They Use Their Support System

It’s tempting, yet entirely ineffective, to attempt tackling everything by yourself. To deal with toxic people, you need to recognize the weaknesses in your approach to them. This means tapping into your support system to gain perspective on a challenging person. Everyone has someone at work and/or outside work who is on their team, rooting for them, and ready to help them get the best from a difficult situation. Identify these individuals in your life and make an effort to seek their insight and assistance when you need it. Something as simple as explaining the situation can lead to a new perspective. Most of the time, other people can see a solution that you can’t because they are not as emotionally invested in the situation.

Bringing It All Together

Before you get this system to work brilliantly, you’re going to have to pass some tests. Most of the time, you will find yourself tested by touchy interactions with problem people. Thankfully, the plasticity of the brain allows it to mold and change as you practice new behaviors, even when you fail. Implementing these healthy, stress-relieving techniques for dealing with difficult people will train your brain to handle stress more effectively and decrease the likelihood of ill effects.

I always love to hear new strategies for dealing with toxic people, so please feel free to share yours in the comments section below!

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Travis Bradberry, Ph.D.

Dr. Travis Bradberry is the award-winning co-author of the #1 bestselling book, Emotional Intelligence 2.0, and the cofounder of TalentSmart, the world's leading provider of emotional intelligence tests, emotional intelligence training, and emotional intelligence certification, serving more than 75% of Fortune 500 companies. His bestselling books have been translated into 25 languages and are available in more than 150 countries. Dr. Bradberry has written for, or been covered by, Newsweek, BusinessWeek, Fortune, Forbes, Fast Company, Inc., USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, and The Harvard Business Review.



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Chambers big enough for us to get along.
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well, for what-ever it is worth Mark, I would never consider you "toxic" :shock: I stopped judging people a while back (before the WMMs) , and when I slip back into that mode, (a learned behavior - finding faults) then I understand that the Universe has arranged a mirror for me to look at myself in. If I find myself saying, things like "what a tard" I understand the purpose of that "tard" in my life is to to help me correct my own "tardy-ness" 8)


I noticed that you don't Judge others (much) - perhaps you were made aware of this ancient cultural "wisdom" before you joined the WMF too - it is pretty common knowledge in the New Age community as well (I am another you), and established in the WMMs when they suggest that we find/recognize our Self, in everyone who crosses our path.
Realization of the Sovereign Integral consciousness is realization of one’s True Self as present in everyone else.
Discernment, without being judgmental, is a very challenging skill to master - we each need a great deal of practice - and the forum provides it... we are all serving the Plan of FS - no coincidence that we all find ourselves here ... Iam/Weare all serving our created purpose as Sovereigns - whether we are conscious of it or not - we are integral

being "in the moment" and aware of who you are, at all times, transforms your state of being conscious - and as you mentioned: the key is the HV "frequency" (obtw have you seen that movie ? netflix)

To realize the Self as the Sovereign Integral here, and express this consciousness while in the human instrument, requires that you focus the Six Heart Virtues within your local universe – the passages of your life in which you physically move – and apply them ceaselessly. The key to realization is a direct, sober, truthful assessment of your behaviors and applying the Six Heart Virtues to those behaviors that have become expressions of your self-deception and dishonesty.

The Quantum Moment helps you to be present in the moment and to see your Self as the observer, not passing judgment on others or yourself, but retaining the sober assessment of the Sovereign Integral and applying forgiveness and understanding to the passage in which you most recently entered throughout your life. It becomes a way of life.
A6 from James PCI http://projectcamelot.org/james_wingmak ... egral.html

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well, if you can't read, then the internet is a very silly place to be ... I don't read books any more, they can't keep up with "the NOW" and are really not as interesting as reality (can't make this stuff up)

but what truly amazes me, is that I can express genuine gratitude, EVERY single day, for how I see the Universal Entity "brightening my path" - it keeps me in a state of Humility to realize its concern for my well being and steady progress - and my relationship with Nature is consistently awe inspiring

I'm not waiting for "a collective" - WE ARE INTEGRAL to "the collective" - if I am not participating in the dismantling of the walls - there is no collective forming ... and never will be, until I AM participating - practicing, honing my skills, mastering my potential - not waiting on some "savior" because nothing prevents us from fulfilling my/our destiny in the plan of First Source - NOW:

"The plan is the collective unfolding of souls to realize the singular nature of universehood as an undivided process.


We move from neighborhoods to cities, to states, to nations, to continents, to hemispheres, to planets, to solar systems, to galaxies, to local universes, to Superuniverses, to the Grand Multiverse—the all-encompassing structure of our collective unity.

And at every step we emerge the victor of the lesser state of being in that our lives increasingly exemplify the presence of our collective perception of what is best for the evolutionary course set forth by First Source for the Grand Multiverse."


LD 3 Nature of Knowledge, https://www.wingmakers.com/content/resources/



This is so convoluted that all I can say is , it is obvious that you don't read and it shows for lack of research when you try replacing the need to read and research with your uninformed opinion instead used with taking the WMM out of context...as usual. That just doesn't fly here anymore and especially with those who still do read. I taught myself to read when 4 years old so excited was I to explore the world of books. I have lost count of how much I have read since then decades ago, and I continue to be much richer for it. I love that Sumbola offers this wonderful platform for readers, authors and publishers and whatever else alike. I love that Planet Work Press exists to publish James' BOOKS. Us, committed readers love all of this!!! Exercising the imagination is a wonderful thing for those who have, sharing with those who can appreciate it.



I didn't say that I don't read Shay, I said that I don't read books - apparently you don't comprehend much ... I spend hours, every day, reading and researching diverse perspective of "Now", that are being shared -around the globe ... in real time ... but I am not just reading, what others say, I am also adding to the collective of knowledge being transfered, in real time ... I am connected to the web and tuned into the Sovereign Integral Network ... of my own free will ... in the mean time, my horse jumped the fence today, and all sorts of other Drama "happens" to make every day unique and appreciable

I'm still buying books, I have everything Wingling that is for sale (except the big art) ... just in case the internet goes down, but by then I will have it memorized - because I repeat them so often :lol: but right now its dusk - the golden time of day to sun gaze , then feed my critters, who are totally enjoying the mild weather we have had for a week now (it was in the seventies here today) -California got water, all is well - even if we are wobbling significantly

living life, is more important (to me) than to isolate my self to read ... a book - been there done that , for several decades ... moving on -with my own personal "realization" that what I personally experience, is all I'll ever KNOW ... and that's what we are here to do, Experience All that Is - not read about it - I'll watch the movie (snicker) at least it has more than the one dimension of the black on white words on paper

PS I have not taken anything "out of context" I am simply focusing on what the WMMs reveal about what we are experiencing NOW and provide detailed links, so that you can discern for yourself - if what is being revealed - is universally true - or not.

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The Sumbola platform, whom Ernest(Solaris) and Mark Hempel are two co-founders of is one of a kind if not the first of its kind of publishing platforms for people to publish without the middleman. Both publish interesting articles there. For those who actually read and are interested in materials that are very much related to the study of the WMM it's an excellent source of intelligent information. You can easily publish articles, short stories, or whatever if you aren't into doing an e-book. That James has all of his e-books there speaks volumes. I have both the WingMaker e-books and hard copy books from PlanetWork Press since I have always loved to read. ;?}

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for those who are interested in knowing how Sumbola evolved, Mark and Darlene told us, in 2012 right after Quantusum was released (link below to the interview) ...it is one of eight "satilites" created to make this species aware of the WMMs - and it targets and appeals to those who are "into" Social Networking ... and features James' novels ... because once you read one of them, and "feel" the transformation process beginning to open your mind - you won't have a desire to read anything else, and if your desire to know more, is stimulated, you will seek out the WM's website. Nothing compares to what the books James has written has to offer ... so I am not going to waste any of my precious time reading any other books - besides, I have already read about 90% of the books that Sumbola offers ... and I read most of the articles that the members post - when they were first released - directly from the source. I also do not "need" social networking, because I am an independent researcher

The Wingmakers: Quantusum with Mark Hempel and Darlene Berges
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ImFCjbcEqc

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IT is all a game of life.
We are motivated by FS to be different.
I am
Born to be like you are.
Same general mission.
Birth of the Soul.
Conscious in the flesh.
We live forever.


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Though to be aware of physical death.
My brother in law passed just before Thanksgiving
and in April my mother in law went on the 6th.
My father 5 days after her.
True.....all were assigned to the New Jerusalem.....all 3 formerly Taurus.
Interesting communicating with them......no computer necessary to achieve.
So many speak through Crystals....no plug in necessary.
They are alive.
Not dead like the computer.....which is the animus extension.


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well, Mark, even though I know that what I say will not convince you that what James has told us about Death - renders the entity unable to communicate with those experiencing Life ... I will try again - with different words, to "serve truth" by making you aware of what James revealed, is that without a Human Instrument - we can't communicate with those in the "world of form" ... and remind you that we have been fooled by the being who inhabit Anu's world of Death because they can "appear" to be Angels of Light or whomever they believe still has some influence on you ... which serves further to suppress our own consciousness' progression, and encourages us to visit Death ... or abandon the HIs that allow us to - see, hear, feel, smell and even taste "others" while still giving us the same emotions that we have attached to our memories of them when they were living.

the state of Consciousness, that one enters into - outside of the Human Instrument is still limited by the fact that it was fragmented when we (as a species) incarnated into the realms of MEST ... even before we inhabited the HI that allowed us to experience Life in MEST... and to interact in the world of form and share our finding and serve the purpose of our creation (transfer knowledge) ...Until we transform our state of being "trapped and less than whole" we are limited to using the physical HI to do that . Having a wholeness perspective - putting the pieces back together, achieving our First Point as suggested in the WWMs ... allows us to understand that these individuals are not "gone" they just have no way of communicating with us because they have jettisoned the only means they have to interact with LIFE on earth - they no longer exist amongst the living - by choice.

but if you choose to believe that you are communicating with them - it is understandable that you can make it so ... because "whatever the mind can conceive, it can achieve" as Napoleon Hill, the "father of New Age" thinking said :mrgreen:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Napoleon_Hill

if Death is really a "preferred" state of being, why would we be so anxious to communicate with those still (stuck?) in LIFE? Seriously Mark, what purpose does Death serve other than to Suppress the plan of FS ... when we could just as easily realize our Immortality

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I think this is my new favorite of the WingMaker poems...how exquisite it makes me feel...as tears flow...



I AM WE ARE

by James Mahu




We are specks of sky,

a silent choir of pounding hearts.

We are an eyelid

the size of a galaxy,

opening like a rising sun.

If you look out of it

you are absorbed in

I am we are—

whirling in the curvature

of a universe cathedral.

Sound is unity.

Long waves lack horizons,

their roadmaps

penned from the Creator’s heart,

boomerang.

Listen…

do you hear the subtle, undulating seams

through which you can pass?

There…

there…

and there…



Behind the overgrown weeds

the song leads to

I am we are.

It may seem unlikely

that what is small

and commonly ignored

is powerful,

but

root

feeds

leaf.

True power waits in the whisper.

Beneath the ground state.

It is rested.

It does not flex,

pounce,

grip,

or grab,

for it is not of muscle.

Or bone.

Or mind.

Or even humanness.

Remember that.

Power is not

what you have

been taught.

Power is

the internal gaze

that discerns

I am we are,

and then dresses our every deed

in that finery

and nothing more.

In the same way that white light

is nothing more than

all colors.



We are bodies of air.

Deeper, we are not bodies at all.

We are the

Sovereign Integral…

That which is

I

and

we

at one time.

One place.

One and equal.

No dominance.

Equipoise.

We are invisible numbers

more than gathered letters,

atop the Periodic Table.

Sound

more than mass.

Depth

more than skin.

We are a bucket brigade

to the fires of ego and separation.

Our “water” is

I am we are.



We arm-wrestle the limbless soul.

We point our fingers at the mirror

that dares to lecture.

We stare into ourselves

and test:

“Am I?”

“Are we?”

“Really?”

Beautiful clarity,

the sated view

is often heard first

and followed least.

We grow in unseen places.

Come alive in the music

of quiet spaces

porous with pauses

and the rounded sound of soaring feathers.



The eyelid opens.

Canopied hues of blue, green, brown, and gray

come alive,

endless in their bidding to discover

I am we are.

It is this and nothing more,

in the same way that white light

is nothing more than

all colors.


https://www.wingmakers.com/i-am-we-are/

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